And why willpower alone will never be enough to fix it.
Let me guess: You're reading this on your phone. And you've already checked your email, glanced at a notification, maybe even switched tabs once or twice in the last 10 minutes.
You're trying to focus, but your brain is pulling you in nineteen different directions.
Here's what nobody's telling you: This isn't a discipline problem. This is a neuroscience problem.
Your brain has been hijacked. And the scariest part? Most high-performers don't even realize it's happening.
Research from Harvard Medical School revealed something disturbing: When you self-disclose on social media, your brain lights up the exact same regions that activate when taking addictive substances. That little hit of dopamine when someone likes your post? That's not harmless. That's your reward system being systematically hijacked (Haynes, 2018).
Social media platforms aren't accidentally addictive…
They're actually engineered to trigger dopamine releases that keep you coming back for more. Every notification, every like, every comment and every piece of tantalizing internet drama is a carefully calculated dopamine hit designed to make you check 'just one more time.' The more time and attention you spend in each app, the more money they make and the more addicted you become. It's a vicious cycle – and it only serves one party well.
After my own experience with burnout and an autoimmune diagnosis, I spent years studying with doctors, ancient wellness practitioners and energy masters across India, Tibet, Nepal, the USA and Europe. What I discovered changed everything: When your dopamine system is constantly overstimulated by digital (and other) triggers, your brain stops feeling satisfaction from real achievements. It impacts your brain health, your hormones, your happiness and so much more. This is why high-achievers burn out even when they're crushing every goal.
Stanford University research destroyed the 'multitasking superpower' myth: Frequent multitasking can decrease productivity by up to 40%.
Not 5%. Not 10%. Forty percent.
Every time you switch between your presentation deck, email, Slack, and that 'quick' web search, your brain experiences cognitive load from task-switching. What feels like efficiency is actually massive energy depletion and decreased output quality.
MRI studies show that regular, extensive internet use creates significant changes in the neural pathways of frequent users compared to those less engaged - especially in areas controlling attention, impulse control, and executive functioning. Your prefrontal cortex, the CEO of your brain responsible for decision-making and focus, is being systematically weakened.
A UCLA study found that sixth-graders who spent just five days at a camp without screens became significantly better at reading human emotions than those who maintained their usual digital habits. Five days. That's all it took to see measurable improvements in fundamental social intelligence.
Research on 'technoference' (phone snubbing) revealed it lowers relationship satisfaction and contributes to depression. Digital communication strips away the non-verbal cues that are integral to human connection: tone, facial expressions, body language.
Harvard research revealed that blue light from screens suppresses melatonin production more powerfully than other light wavelengths, disrupting sleep patterns and adversely affecting mental health.
Blue light exposure suppressed melatonin for about twice as long as green light and shifted circadian rhythms by twice as much.
Here's what longevity research is showing: Chronic stress from tech overstimulation is a major accelerator of aging and disease. Every day you spend with your nervous system in digital-induced fight-or-flight mode is compromising cognitive function and metabolic health.

If you're waiting for more willpower to solve this problem, you're fighting a losing battle. You cannot out-discipline neurochemistry. What you need is a completely different approach - one that works with your biology instead of against it.
Time management assumes you have attention to manage. Tech-blocking creates the conditions for attention to exist in the first place.
Block out specific periods - even just 20 minutes to start - where you shut down your phone, close email, and eliminate all notifications to focus on a single task or project. The Pomodoro Technique of 25-minute focused sprints followed by 5-minute breaks works because it respects your brain's natural rhythm, not because it forces more productivity. Some prefer a longer cycle (45 min / 10 min break) since it takes so long to gain initial focus.
Please remember this:
This isn't about being anti-technology - tech isn’t going anywhere and we need to learn to live in greater harmony with it. This is about reclaiming your nervous system from chronic activation so you can access the clarity and creativity that only exist in a regulated and relaxed state.
You may need a digital intervention if you:
These aren't character flaws; they are neurological symptoms of a dysregulated dopamine system.

Choose one daily activity where you commit to being fully present without digital interference: playing with your kids, walking your dog, cooking dinner, genuine conversation with your partner. Start with just one. Your brain needs to remember what undivided attention feels like.
Consider making your bedroom a tech-free zone. Research consistently shows that tech-free sleep environments dramatically improve sleep quality, which directly impacts your nervous system regulation, hormone balance, and cognitive performance.
Meditation and mindfulness aren't just trendy wellness practices - they're the brain training solutions that prepare you to maintain focused attention for extended periods. Breath awareness practices train your prefrontal cortex to resist the pull of distraction – the same neural circuitry that tech addiction weakens.
When you get interrupted during deep work and feel that surge of frustration, that's your nervous system still in fight-or-flight mode. Adrenaline and cortisol make it neurologically impossible to regain flow state. Many of my executive clients struggle with this after decades of chronic stress as a CEO or other prominent business leader
Instead of pushing through, take a deliberate break. Let your nervous system shift from activation to regulation before moving forward again. This is not weakness - this is working with your biology.
I believe an incredibly bright future is possible with the responsible collaboration of humans and AI. But that future requires leaders who have mastered their own energy systems and inner technology. You cannot lead others through transformation if your own nervous system is trapped in chronic dysregulation.
Technology isn't the enemy. Unchecked technology use that hijacks your dopamine system and keeps you in perpetual fight-or-flight mode is the enemy.
The question isn't whether to use technology - it's whether you're using it, or it's using you.
The entrepreneurs and business leaders who will thrive in the age of AI aren't the ones who can improve their productivity the fastest or attend the most meetings.
It will be the ones who understand how to regulate their nervous systems, optimize their natural neurochemistry, and create sustainable energy management practices that prevent burnout before it starts.
This is exactly why I created the CEO: Chief Energy Officer program - a science-backed system for energy mastery that addresses the root cause of burnout: chronic nervous system dysregulation.
It's not about time management or productivity hacks. It's about learning to become the master of your own energy so you can attract instead of chase, and accomplish more with less effort; regulated instead of depleted.
Your business - and your life - are waiting for you to show up as your optimal self…
What is one tech boundary you can commit to implementing this week?
Health is Wealth,
Corene Summers
Wellness Strategist | Helping Biz Owners & YPO Leaders Optimize Performance with Energy Mastery & Nervous System Regulation | The Wellness Domes 2026 | TBI Survivor
Connect with Corene: http://www.corenesummerscoaching.com/
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